I am starting a new thread because i cant add to your post for some reason. Trying to stop abusive language at football matches is like trying to save the Titanic from sinking. It wont happen. I have made comments to linesman and refs but not abusively. When faced with brutal incompetence its hard not too.
I remember a older man constantly striding up and down the terraces at the old Milton Road in the sixties. . He was abusive, and kept telling the players they were no good, and nothing like the players of the past. For a full ninety minutes, quite remarkable I couldnt help but love him, he cared, there is little passion now. Maybe things were different in the fifties.